There are two types of affairs. A short-term affair is one where you barely know your affair partner. It can be a fling with a prostitute or a one night stand. Or someone you see just a few times. A long illicit encounter is one where you start knowing each other’s habits and moves. Emotions and feelings manifest themselves.
So … what’s BETTER and LESS RISKY???
We recommend short-term affairs over long-term affairs – any day. Short-term encounters have certain advantages:
Long term affairs are complicated. You will almost always be asked to leave your spouse. It becomes a little-relationship. That requires different levels of effort to manage.
The longer you have an affair with someone, the more incrementally attached they shall become to you.
Similarly, emotional affairs are a messy thing to get into. Strong feelings make affairs extremely complicated. Infatuation is very strong. It can turn to obsession in an instant, which increases your risk of getting caught.
You need to figure out (for yourself) if you’re in it for the great sex or a completely new relationship. If you are looking for a steady life partner, you need a divorce – not an affair.
If you’re in simply for good fucking, you have a controllable affair situation. Learn to have short-term affairs and know how to end them quickly. Avoid shitty & messy situations AT ALL COST.
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